Psychoblog

don’t get pressured into anything. the day is yours and hannah’s and the only way it will be as special as it should be is if you choose things that mean the most to you. the best way to get around this i think is not to talk about your plans with anyone else and so they will only know what is happening when they get the invitations when everything is booked. i think me and carl are going to do that.

i think we’ll be able to keep from upsetting anyone. i have a small family and they all live in brum so that’s easy, and if we do get married in brum it will be closer than nottingham is for all of carl’s relatives too. i’m most concerned that university friends who are spread around the country won’t be able/willing to come.